Ok, I'll say it. Men are not the best about helping themselves. Being a doctor for 15 years, I'm asked at least a couple of times a month: "Hey doc, my prostate is starting to have problems. What can I do?" Most women take notes, ask me to spell what I'm talking about, ask for references, will in dubiously ask: "Anything else?" After giving a man two or three simple ideas, I usually get: "Forget it. It'll be fine." and they go on mostly pretending...