Crying: A Natural and Cultural History of Tears

by Thomas Lutz and Tom Lutz

Book Overview

In this wide-ranging and provocative study, Tom Lutz looks at the ways people have understood weeping from the earliest known representations of tears in the fourteenth century B.C. to the tears found... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0393047563
• ISBN13: 9780393047561
• Release Date: August 1999
• Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company
• Length: 352 Pages
• Weight: 1.55 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.3" x 6.4" x 9.6"

Customer Reviews

Crying as Expressed in Cultural Context

"Tears have been central to myth, religion, poetry, and fiction through the ages, but until recently, remarkably little has been written in an attempt to explain and understand tears themselves. Perhaps no other fundamental human activity has received so little direct and sustained attention." ~ Tom Lutz Tom Lutz presents an understanding of tears to explore crying as expressed in cultural context. He explains the reasons why people don't weep at funerals in Bali, reveals the chemical content of emotional versus lubricating tears, and delves into tribal rituals that seek to wash away psychic pain. "Crying: The Natural & Cultural History of Tears" looks at tears from every angle an anthropologist could wish for and while Tom Lutz uncovers the mystery and intrigue of tears, he also appeals to the psychologist in us all who longs for deeper explanations. This can at times read more like an intellectual treatise rather than an emotive argument, but all the while, Tom Lutz seems to seek a validation for crying in a world where no one can agree on a similar standard for the shedding of tears. Some cultures have specific rules for when you may or may not cry that seem shockingly cruel on the surface, but reveal an underlying need for survival in difficult circumstances. The harmful mourning rituals of some tribes made horror movies sound like a summer picnic. The spiritual significance of tears is especially interesting, as is the way humans express their feelings of loss. As Tom Lutz so aptly states: "...without desire there are no tears." Desire takes many forms and at times a desire that is fulfilled is also the cause for tears. We may also fear the loss of what we desire or desire something we can't have and so are then frustrated. What can you do in the first twelve weeks of life that will ensure a baby doesn't cry as much in the future? How do parents in tribal situations deal with crying? Why do some cultures promote weeping and expect demonstrative grief, while other cultures shun the idea to the point of removing a weeping person from the scene of a funeral? Why are men more comfortable with crying in our modern society? A discussion on childcare unveils a few details that didn't seem pertinent to the topic at hand, but do reveal a certain curiosity of the author. The way he explores this topic made me think he may in fact have written this book for an audience of psychologists. While this book is very intriguing, it doesn't seem to reach out to the casual reader, nor does it keep specifically to the topic of emotions. For the adventurous reader, the topics expand and travel to new destinations, opening the mind to ideas that relate very much to the dimensions of the soul and the deeper understandings of how humans function on all levels of existence. This is not a casual study of emotions, but more of an in depth discussion of everything related to crying and its cultural significance. This topic is fascinating and if you

A little bit of something for everyone!

In this book, the author puts his multi-disciplinary knowledge to good use by summarizing literary, artistic, cultural, biological, and psychological analyses of tears. Lutz synthesizes these viewpoints in clear language, accompanied by vivid pictures and illustrations that further clarify his points. With examples ranging from Alice in Wonderland to Freud's rejection of crying as catharsis, the book covers a remarkable amount of material across a great deal of time, while remaining a cohesive text. Those interested in psychology will appreciate Lutz's analysis of the varied psychological explanations of crying, as well as his perspective on Phineas Gage. Students of anatomy will be impressed by his clear explanation of the lacrimal system and the history of how it came to be understood. Sociologists and anthropologists will be fascinated by his insights into cultural mourning. And fans of literature will enjoy his analysis of tears in fiction, in which he discusses playwrights from Shakespeare to Neal Simon and authors from Socrates to Dostoyevsky. The book even treats crying in relation to films such as Lorenzo's Oil and Titanic!In effect, although classified as a psychology book, "Crying" has a little something for most everyone. A useful book for analysis, self-reflection, reference or study.

Great for Tom, bad luck for U of Iowa if he leaves!

A cohesive, artfully written book on a subject near and dear to many people's hearts (and heads), "Crying" moves seamlessly from academic analysis to a cultural critique of the emotions involved in a readable, intelligent, and plain fun format. With this book, Dr. Lutz may very well make the move from academic publishing (which few read) to publishing success, and hey-- go for it, Tom! A merry reader, Iowa City, Iowa. (will you promise to come visit after your success?)

A talented, engaging writer and scholar

I loved Lutz's earlier book (American Nervousness), and this one is also a great accomplishment. More than any literary scholar I have read, Lutz is able to use literature to bring great insight to particular social and cultural issues. He also writes well.

My Dad wrote one great book, let me tell you!

I mean it! Seriously! Really! I'm not kidding