We all, of course, want to be happy. But what does that mean? What does it take to be happy? Is it a state of mind? Is it a way of being?We are always choosing and re-choosing how we relate to everything, and therefore we are always creating and re-creating our experience. It may not seem that way now, sometimes, or even ever, but it is true! We are in the drivers seat of our lives. We may not directly choose our mothers, our cousins, or our next...