Coming Out Spiritually: The Next Step

by Christian de la Huerta and Rachel Lacey

Book Overview

In these times of dramatic social change, when the highly charged issue of homosexuality is undeniably causing controversy in many arenas--religion, marriage, politics, education, the military-- Christian de la Huerta , founder and director of Q-Spirit, offers a fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it.A spiritual awakening is occurring in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community, as in much of the world. In this encompassing...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0874779669
• ISBN13: 9780874779660
• Release Date: May 1999
• Publisher: Tarcherperigee
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 0.65 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.9" x 9.1"
• Age Range: 18 years and up
• Grade Range: Postsecondary and higher

Customer Reviews

A masterful, indispensable tool for self-empowerment

"Coming Out Spiritually" by Christian de la Huerta was named one of its top ten religion books of 1999 by Publisher's Weekly. Now in its eighth printing, the book has provided gay and lesbian people and their friends and allies with a thorough and thoughtful synthesis of their queer and spiritual selves. Born in Cuba, de la Huerta is a passionate proponent of the special role he sees gays and lesbians playing in today's society. He believes that gays and lesbians are meant to be catalysts for the world's spiritual evolution, and that the time has come for them to embrace this joyous responsibility. Graduating with honors from Tulane University, the author has been a therapist and group facilitator for the past dozen years and is founder and president of "Q-Spirit", an international network of gays and lesbians in spirituality. For many years, de la Huerta contends, gays and lesbians have been forced by organized religion to separate their sexual identities from their spiritual identities. The resulting spiritual fragmentation, according to the author, has been devastating to gay people and barely less costly to their larger community. This book discusses a number of ways of "coming out," focusing on a spiritual foundation for that process. De la Huerta begins his book with a story from taken from a meeting of people from around the world intending to form an organization known as United Religions (a faith-based analogue of the United Nations), with a purpose of finding common ground among the world's religious traditions. At this conference the author spoke about the "Wild Faith," the queer spiritual tradition and about including gay people in the orgaization's efforts. From the positive reception de la Huerta received, he continued discussions and developed a methodology and resources for this book According to de la Huerta, homosexual and other gender-variant people have always served a spiritual function in their communities, particularly in times of radical social transformation. Like physicians, they are (and always have been) there to preside over the death of the old, assuring a peaceful and pain-free passing; like midwives, they attend the birth of the new, assuring a safe delivery and a welcome into the world. The author elaborates ten specific ways in which gay people and other gender-variant folk have for millenia lent their spiritual gifts to the world, presenting evidence of these roles (copiously documented and substantiated with a wealth of footnotes) throughout history and in different cultures: these archetypes include the Transformer, the Outsider, the Risk-Taker, the Sacred Clown, the Preserver of Beauty, the Caregiver, the Mediator, the Priest/Shaman, the Divine Androgyne and the Gatekeeper. "Coming Out spiritually" introduces readers to many of the world's religions, including Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Judaism, Sufism, and Taoism, and investigates the teachings of these traditions and their attitudes to

Finally, a queer perspective on ALL faiths

Coming Out Spiritually is a book I've been trying to find for a long time. Many of the books on queer spirituality I've read previously are written from an exclusively Christian point of view. But in this book, there is an effort to include all faiths and belief systems. This is one of the first books I've found that doesn't use the words "religious" and "spiritual" synonomously. In fact, it makes clear that spirituality is a quality that comes from within rather than something that is tied to the trappings of dogma and creeds that organized religions expound.In addition to being a thought-provoking and ultimately uplifting book, the appendixes with information on all major faiths' and religions' teachings on gays and lesbians is very informative and helpful.

An incredible book

This book is a must read for all GLBT people seeking a spiritual life. It is very empowering. Christian describes the many roles GLBT people have played throughout history. The way he explains the difference between spirituality and religion in a way that will help anyone get over their ideas that being spiritual means selling out to the Christian Right. Please read this book. We CAN change the world.

Great book for the LGBT community!

This book is easy to read and yet full of precise scholarly prose. A must-read for those of the LGBT community who are spiritual or are struggling with spiritual issues.As a bisexual woman, I found that this book included me instead of the trend of a lot of books on gay issues which cater specifically to the male community. I was very impressed with Christian's style and evocative language. Having met him recently at the SF Book Festival, I found that as a speaker, he is equally as eloquent and feels very strongly about his work in the LGBT community.Anyone wondering about what religions really feel about homosexuality? Check out Appendix 1 which includes "snapshots" of many religions.I recommend this book to anyone in the LGBT community or someone who has a loved one in the LGBT community and is wondering about spiritual issues.

A spiritual masterpiece!

Christian de la Huerta's book perfectly expresses my personal experience of spirituality as a gay man. What has taken me years to sift through and distill, he beautifully shapes in this highly inspiring, as well as practical, guide to the development of the gay/lesbian/human spirit. As a psychologist, I have often found that because of the great harm that some organized religions have heaped upon sexual minorities, many in our community have closed themselves off to the very essential and very human spiritual sides of themselves. In essence, by associating spirituality only with religion, they metaphorically "throw the baby out with the bathwater". Mr. de la Huerta's book offers the promise of not only reviving lost spirituality for those abused by religion, but he also offers clear direction for those of us who avidly pursue healthy spiritual growth. Bravo Mr. de la Huerta!