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HistoryThough this book's main audience is female, I think ambivalence happen in both sexes. As a female, I definitely recognize and acknowledge my own ambivalence behavior as a result of the past pain and hurt from other relationships and from my own childhood experience. It is through acknowledgement and the willingness to let go of these past pain and hurt, can we truly heal and find a healthy relationship. I met men who...
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Rhonda Findling's second book was even more helpful for me than her first (Don't Call that Man). Not just an advice book (though Rhonda has plenty to give here) it provides lots of straightforward insight as to why we cling and accept rejection from all types of unsuitable men (from the Men Who Play Parlor Games, to Runners, to Ambivalent Cybermen). Going beyond blaming dear old mom or dad, she also helps us examine our...
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Ms. Findling's book should be in the ready reference section of every woman's personal library. In the event she doesn't need it, she is practically certain to have a friend or family member who does. The book addresses the problems women experience in trying to have a committed relationship with a man. The book is just as effective for married women in problem relationships as it is for single women. The focus of the...
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order this book. All those ???? in your head will start get some answers. Answers that make sense and help guide your heart. I hope that this book ends up on the best seller list because with all the relationship books out helping you to understand confusing male behavior in a relationship, The Commitment Cure is the real deal. If you wonder why he acts the way he does AND why you act the way you do in response to him, here...
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Rhonda Findling's superb writing fills in the cracks and voids left by other books on commitmentphobic-men (and women). Here, succinctly, are descriptions of all the men I have dated since my divorce 11 years ago. Half of that time period I was without the technology of the Internet where information and assistance are available 24/7. I sought answers, instead, by devouring relationship books: a practice which has been...
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