"Beautifully written, complex, provocative, painful, genuine...an unforgettable memoir."--ROXANE GAY "Wonderfully lyrical and uncomfortably honest in a way that is so rare, yet so needed."--JENNY LAWSON "Disturbing and profound, this intimate book also reveals the sometimes-labyrinthine nature of the bonds that unite people in love...A provocative and memorable work."--Kirkus Reviews After...