- The Essential Other: A Developmental Psychology of the Self (Basic Professional Books)
- The Course of Gay and Lesbian Lives: Social and Psychoanalytic Perspectives (Worlds of Desire: The Chicago Series on Sexuality, Gender, and Culture)
- The Story of Sexual Identity: Narrative Perspectives on the Gay and Lesbian Life Course
- Writing Desire: Sixty Years of Gay Autobiography
- The Psychoanalytic Study of Lives Over Time: Clinical and Research Perspectives on Children Who Return to Treatment in Adulthood (Practical Resources for ... for the Mental Health Professional)